My biggest fear for the future is the lack of connection- to our fellow man. While staring at screens, we miss the joyful glance in another’s eyes. Constantly drawn to attention on social media, we crave unnecessary validation. The need for approval is disturbing. In seeking attention, there is a push to focus on self.
We have young kids posting pictures and videos aiming to gain a following. Adults are hermits as they’ve found an outlet in a safe space hidden behind a screen. They can send their innermost thoughts, ideas, and opinions. Ruthless intent has replaced kindness, empathy, and care. Whether it is a news story, meme, or a Facebook survey, everyone has something to say, and all decency has gone to the wind. Filled with filtered confidence, people dare say what they would never say to someone’s face on a screen.
Connection begins when you look into another person’s eyes or touch their flesh. There is warmth and life. For modern society to walk through life without understanding the depth of human relationships outside your immediate family, spouse, or children is a sad scenario. However, those core relationships are also at risk of failure as we fail to connect.
Go to dinner and leave your phone behind. Turn off your ringer when you get home. Read a book together rather than sit and watch another YouTube video. Stop throwing your iPad at a child’s temper tantrum. Return books and pencils to our classrooms. Turn off the television a few nights a week. Look at our family gathered around the table (sit together for dinner!)
Life is short. There is no legacy as an outstanding achievement as a long-term social media bystander, influencer, or professional poster. Our infatuation with a false connection through the world of computerized technology has lost its appeal. It’s time to move on and take this modern society back a few pegs. And that is what I would change.
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